My Dad

June 10, 2013 at 9:49 pm 4 comments

I love Father’s Day because I get to honor my dad, but it’s weird like Mother’s Day because how do you celebrate someone (for a day) who has loved you all of your life? The question for me is what did I learn from my dad? Hm… Well, my dad was very patient and easy-going. So during those times, when I’m not running at 100 miles per hour, I’m probably acting like my dad! smiley  In addition, he accepted people for who they were. I very seldom heard him talk badly about anyone. Okay I have half of that trait from him! On good days, when I’m not yelling at the driver in front of me, I’m probably acting more like my dad. I’m pretty competitive, believe in helping others (got that from both parents), and I’d say the rest of my traits are a result of my mother. (She was pretty awesome too!) The one thing I don’t see a lot anymore is that my father taught me to respect myself as a woman and to be selective in my choices of men. I’m sure I learned other things, but those are the main traits that make me who I am today.

However, my dad taught me tolerance because when I went through a divorce, my ex-husband had a hard time paying child support. My mother said, “throw the book at him”. My dad agreed with me when I decided to work things out. My ex-husband was a good father, so having him continue to work and provide what he could for his children was more important to me than having him sit in jail.

By the way, my dad turned 81 years old last week, and he’s in great health. Happy Father’s Day Horace!

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  • 1. Michelle D Engram Thomas  |  June 11, 2013 at 12:08 am

    Nice picture!!

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    • 2. clwilliams27  |  June 11, 2013 at 10:56 am

      Thanks Michelle! Did you notice Patti Ruth in the picture as well? I got to see both of them last year.

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  • 3. Maria  |  June 26, 2013 at 12:34 pm

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